CHEATERS

I feel we have all been guilty of cheating in one way or another... but why??? Why cheat on someone??? Why not just tell them that you are not interested in being in a committed relationship with them anymore??? Is it easier to cheat because you could possibly get caught and then it would be your ticket out of the relationship??? I have been guilty of cheating but I can't answer these questions. I know mine was a result of retaliation against the man who cheated on me all the time. The calls from the females, the hurt and the pain of not knowing what he is doing. I remember how I got tired of wondering what he was doing, who he was doing and where he was. I don't know how the other women knew to even contact me but they seemed to know about me and I didn't have a clue about them. I have found pictures of naked women and compromising positions in his bed. I've been betrayed by an ex-friend of mine. She was dirty. I had no clue she would go there. I never expected it. What's funny is that when she decided to tell me about it, she didn't warn him so I was able to get to his ass before she could. I couldn't laugh then but I can now at how caught off guard he was. Unfortunately, I kept him around another 2yrs but if I could turn back the hands of time, that would have been the last conversation we had. I learned from that and I move forward. Most of us had our cheating moments in highschool. It was easy to start a relationship with someone else while with another person and then dump the previous person. This doesn't mean there was sex involved because it wasn't but it was a lot of switching going on from middle to high school. There are a lot of STDs out there and HIV/AIDS is still existing in our world. Consider the other person before you cheat. Leave them before you cheat on them. Get tested my friends and practive safe sex. What's terrible is that people should use protection when sleeping with their own husband/wives. That's sad but it's true.