Admitting when I am wrong or not

So, I made the decision to maybe throw myself a party for my 28th birthday. It started off as just a dutch dinner party with friends and now it's buffet-style, free party that better include gifts...lol. I was trying to decide who I would invite. I want to invite everyone but I have to limit it to 15 people including myself. I also know that if I invite my friends, they may not totally mesh well with my aunt's personality. I brought that to his attention. I can't really say he helped me much with it. I was kind of left wondering what I should do. He quoted a scripture and told me it was an issue I needed to work out and ran off to take his bath. I felt like I was dismissed. I would say as usual but it hasn't happened that often. It has happened but I don't think he means to do it on purpose and neither do I really bring it up. Tonight or last night I feel irritated me to a point that I didn't even want to talk about it. He stated he felt he slighted me in some way and when I mentioned it, he said he thought he gave me the suggestions, advice and counsel I requested.... *sighs* .... I don't know what I expect. I guess I go all the way with someone. Yes, I do say to trust in God and allow Him to guide but I feel I offer so much more to a person and usually I allow things that I have to do to just wait for the moment until the person has at least calmed down or figured it out. Now, I realize that isn't always the case but I don't throw things (I can't assume that it's blank but it seems that way...Any advice that includes God isn't blank but I do feel the more can be provided) their way and just kind of walk away. I could be wrong and maybe I am. I don't know if I am or not. I know what I am wrong for not even continuing my talk with him about it. I think after he felt he had done what he needed even after he said he felt he sligted me irritated me. I thought I was tripping but I know how I felt at the moment it happened and he knew that it happened too. I am a big girl, yes, and usually most of my situations work out with no problem. I think last night I was just really torn about my guestlist and I really, really wanted his help. I told him to just forget it. He said okay. I said, whatever, okay and to have a good night. He said nothing. He didn't even say goodnight. I don't want to point fingers at this point because it's not about that. I think I should have done better in the situation but I guess I just wanted him to be there. It's my party, yes, but I guess I still want his input and his help. My guestlist is more important to me than the cost of the party. I am still at this very moment as mentioned earlier, torn about my list. I am also left wondering what I should do next about everything. I don't think this little rift will cause a huge problem with us at least I don't hope it will. I think we will work through this somehow. I guess I can take a page from his book and apologize first this time. I know I was wrong for dismissing the whole thing but I guess I assumed he knew what was going on but I guess he didn't. I guess he did everything he needed to do to help me and I should have been grateful for that piece. I'm going to write that email now.... happy blogging u guys...